All the lonely people

When we start our life -and we go for first time to school- nothing forebodes our future life.

During the school period and the childhood, we live in a house full of relatives, we have a circle of friends and school mates, we have many school and family obligations, many different interesting that we don’t have the time to feel lonely. Actually, we don’t have time to feel anything except of anger for the relatives that we cannot stand of exhaustion.

But when we leave behind the safe circle of the teens, many problems appear.

First of all we have to enter in another circle, the circle of work colleagues, university colleagues, army friends…

As all of us know, the entrance in a circle is not an easy thing. Whatever are the reasons that make this penetration uneasy, this is the truth.

And what happen if your life obliges you to change the place of leaving and move to another place?

If you make this movement for studies, you have the opportunity to make a new circle, but if you have to work, the things are a little bit difficult.

You want to be in a circle that more or less everybody has his own friends from his childhood or the university years and you have to play with the law of possibilities.

Would be able to be part of this new circle or not?

 Sometimes it happen, sometimes you enter in the circle, but this circle put its limits to you. Of course you entered the circle, but…

The members of this circle recognize you as a friend under special circumstances. They will call you for example to go out with them, only if no one else is available.

This is a good start for loneliness and as lonely people have a very special feeling of distraction, the feeling that their loneliness always bothers the others, they never ask or demand.

And one after the other, the circles remain closed. And the life passes with an endless effort to penetrate the circle of companionship.

And gradually you start to invent a false life to narrow to those who ask you “what have you done this weekend?” and you cannot answer “nothing, absolutely nothing, I was sitting on my sofa with my loneliness”.

And the anxiety to invent a “life” begins.

“Oh, look at all that lonely people…”