Mother-ing!

Women have been born to be mothers. This is the nature. With children or not, they always take care of the others, especially men, that they don’t care about daily details.

Women buy many stuff for men, that they never would take care of, they advice them for many things they buy them all the other clothes except shirts (underwear, shocks, pajamas, after shave, etc).

They care about anything that ensures them that their men’s life will be easier.

But what is the payment for all this care? Just a phrase: “You are like my mother” or more ironically the answer “yes mother”.

They don’t like to treat them like their mother, but they accept any kind of gifts that women (except their mother) buy for them, or they have the demand women work like a kind of reminder for friends’ birthdays, celebrations and any other kind of social obligations.

I write all these without any intention to blame men, I just mention a situation. I don’t have any problem to do it.

I just write this, because I want to ask men just one thing. How would be their life without their mother or without a woman to take care of these details?

My mother doesn’t live anymore and even when she was alive, I was not living in the homestead anymore. I left my house early in my life.

For all the things of my life, important or not) I had to take care of my own.

It is not a pleasant situation, trust me. So, now, if someone shows me the less sign of care I appreciate it like it is a peace of gold.

My mother always said “if someone makes something good for you, appreciate it. And if this person does this without any obligation to push him, then u have to appreciate it twice”.

This is what I do!

I just want to say to men to try to think their life without “woman’s care” for one day only. I am sure that they wouldn’t like it at all!

Or at least the phrase “you are like my mother” would be said with another… tone.

J