Sad and sorrow

When you are hungry for love, companionship, friendship you are not so careful.

You are not so able to distinguish the purity of the others’ emotions.

You start to give, to love, to share without thinking. It is very easy to believe any kind words, any kind of lies, to close your eyes in front of the obvious.

And the truth is revealed very soon.

 Sometimes you are lucky and your relationships (any kind) are deep and real.

But, what is going on when the emotions are not real.

“It depends on the situation” somebody will answer.

Of course it depends, but whoever is the one that plays with you, that lies to you, that betrays you, even if you are waiting for this, even when you are prepared, even if you don’t care about this person, the fact leaves you a bitter taste.

Especially when you didn’t harm the other part. Especially when you gave benefits to them.

Then you have a bitter emotion, you feel sad and sorrow.

Yes I know that it is not normal to spend any emotion for persons that they don’t deserve it, but this is the difference between the persons with high EQ and the others.

The fact that even they hurt very much, THEY feel.

“Who deceives, is as much wise as the one that left himself to be deceived, but he (the deceived) gifted the glory”.