Asking for hug

“How do you ask for a hug” told me one day Mr. Winter Mushroom.

In the beginning I couldn’t understand about what was wondering my dearest friend.

What does it mean how?

Actually I had never thought how you ask a hug.

I think this is instinct, something that human nature search for. Or in other words, this is what we -modishly- name “body language”. A language that is not be taught in any school, but we all of us know.

This language is superior to anything. Even if you deny that flirt someone, your boy will betray you. Body language is the most accurate tool of our personals expressions, the best way to express our real emotions.

Even if we don’t admit the truth (truth is very hard thing sometimes), it is here and our body express it.

If I like a man and I don’t want to admit it, the body language will undeceive the truth. My body will approach him without my will and it will try to touch him. It is the instinct that works. The human nature.

So, if I don’t have the courage to tell him “hug me” or to use my own favorite two words “PROTECT ME”, my body will find the way.

When I feel that I am alone in this world and “all the cold winds of the world blow against my unprotected self”, then it is my own private body that will ask from my man’s protection. My hands will come towards to him and my head will touch his breast and then he will understand (I hope Mr. Winter) that I need his protection and he will hug me.

But, even if my man cannot read body language, I can just ask him: “please, baby, hold me”. I don’t know why it is so difficult to speak. I cannot understand why people are afraid to talk, to solve their problems by confessing and talking and telling the truth.

The simplest way is always the best, but the simplest way is always the most difficult.

I don’t know why. Sometimes it is difficult for me to tell the absolute truth, to explain the cruel part of life exactly as it is. Taboos, obligatory kindness, mentality, emotions, love, timidity, cowardice, fear, stop us of talking truly to the others.

That’s why nature (or God, if you prefer), invented the body language. To help the entire “coward”, “shy”, “ignorant”, “rough”, “vulgar”, “uneducated”, “weak” people of the world express themselves.

Isn’t it GOOD LUCK?