All of us grow up in a different way, depends on the place of birth, the parents, the mentality, the political regime, the social, economic and educational situation, the religion of the country… and many other things. But surely one condition is sure and stable: boys grow up like boys and girls grow up like girls.
Ok. This is obvious. I just want to say that parents, friends and society put in our minds some things which, passing the time is very difficult to throw them out of our heads.
I don’t know exactly what boys have in their minds, but I am sure about girls’ mind content: so many useless things set intentionally or not that sooner or later they will complicate girl’s life.
Mr. Winter asked me something one day, an absolutely normal and logical question. “Why girls think I am weird?”
The poor guy cannot understand what happens in a girlish head.
According to the human nature, women have been born to be mothers. For this reason, they try to find the most, physically, beautiful person and a person with an advanced financial background, because they want to ensure their children’s life.
But moreover, they grow up with the idea that man is the one who has the money and gives to the woman a wealthy life. How many times you don’t hear phrases like “Find a rich guy…”, “Why you don’t marry a rich man…”, “Your husband will have a car and a house…”
This is only one of the clichés that someone else “seeds” in girls’ mind. Girls mind, reality, reaction, attitude, feelings are cultivated by million of taboos, conservative traditions, limited education and especially savoir faire makes girl react strangely or silly. If a girl with small social life approach my genius friend Mr. Winter, it is normal to ask her something and then go away.
Mr. Winter is weird. Why? First, of all because he is genius and the poor girl cannot visualize his intelligence. Secondly, Mr. Winter is very educated and many times when a man of letters talks, the ones that don’t understand laugh or go away. It is the natural reaction. They feel embarrassed; they don’t have any other way of defense. Third, Mr. Winter is very kind and mothers say to daughters “don’t take candies from strangers, don’t trust kind people, they want something bad from you”.
Who will take out of his mind all this shit, to accept my friend, Mr. Winter. Who will convince her that all our lives after our adultness we fight to forget and “vomit” all these useless and harmful things? I refer to the adultness, because I think that after this period of life, WE are the only responsible of our lives, not our parents or our environment.
You are not weird Mr. Winter. You are over qualified for all these girls with the mind full of sawdust and garbage.
But, thanks God, the percentage of thinking women grows fast nowadays.
Isn’t it GOOD LUCK?
PS. Keep talking to girls Mr. Winter. One of them will understand you!
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