Who’s the boss?

Unfortunately “ego” is synonym of human nature.

In any kind of relationships “ego” is there. In friendship, in partnership, in families in personal relationships, everywhere.

I understand absolutely the human nature and accept even its worst parts.

But I cannot understand how can “EGO” involved in a love affair.

It supposed that you chose your companion to share your life with him, your love, to take care of each other, to give him everything. Too much crowding, eh?

Where “ego” finds a crack to enter? In love there is place for egoism?

How come to love someone and the same moment you have the feeling to “be the boss”.

This is love? Who is the boss? Who gives the orders? Who is the potent one?

Maybe I am too old fashioned, may I am too romantic. Maybe I am too much fool or too much sensitive. Maybe I am too much unique. I never ask anything from my man. NOTHING. Just a hug.

I don’t know. I think that during our life we face so much problems and persons that we don’t like. We are obliged to speak and work together with persons that don’t like every day, we have to think only egoistically to survive, and we have to be competitive…

So when we go home, something must change. If we don’t feel safe and no competitive with our beloved person, then what?

You call this life? You call this love? You call this companionship?

Am I the only one that my man is my prince and I am his princess?

Am I the only one that is not competitive?

Man is man and woman is woman. We have nothing to fight for. Our roles in life are different. We have different body structure and different hormones. Man “work” with the mind and woman with the emotion. This is the only difference.

Ok, I cannot pick up 100 kilos, but for this reason my man have to be competitive? My man cannot do two or three things together like a woman. I have to blame for him? This is NATURE!

Do you have problem because your best friend (man or woman) is different from you? No. More beautiful, cleverer, has more money? No (I hope).

Why this bloody “ego” is always there between lovers?

Why we cannot leave behind all the garbage we have in our mind, coming from family, school, society, television, magazines, talking with friends, books, taboos?

Why we cannot leave heart decide for the future of our love?

Because we are cowards and we cannot say “I don’t care about anything. I love you. Together we can find a way. Just you and me. No one and nothing else”.

But is this life there are not only cowards, but brave persons too. These are the persons that make the world go round (ok, and money too!) and love still exist.

Isn’t it GOOD LUCK?